Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Baby pasta

I noticed iman quite picky on meal. Dia tak berapa suka sangat makanan lembik-lembik ni. Gigi soon nak tumbuh. Tapi dah eksen nak makan makanan keras sikit.pppfftt..

Aritu mommy masak macaroni goreng. Sibuk ngendeng nak rasa. Bagi la die rasa satu. (after I suck all the spice of course) Nyum nyum..nanges nak lagi. Haiyooo..its not for you la nak. Mommy cook u something else ya.

So, aritu mommy pergi Jaya Grocer nearby office nak cari macaroni for iman. & I found this.


Hmm..this good enough..

How it goes?

See it yourself


Mommy u r too slow. Let me eat by myself

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Study week with Iman

Yes baby. U succeed -__-

Sunday, December 22, 2013

SOLAT

SOLAT vs USTAZ/SHEIKH/TOK GURU :
JOM SHARE LAJU-LAJU

1. Org yg tak solat akn banyak masalah, tidak tenang, cpt marah susah nk terima kenyataan dn selalu nmpk salah orang lain.
- USTAZ AZHAR IDRUS

2. Walaupun ayah kita penagih dadah sekalipun, bila dia suruh solat, kita sebagai anak WAJIB tunaikannya.
- Ustaz Kazim Elias

3. Tidak solat punca utama penceraian dalam rumahtangga? "Jaga solat...Insyallah bahagia..."
- Ustaz Don Daniyal

4. Selalulah Solat berjemaah walau payah macam mana pun, boleh jadi jemaah itu dapat menampung pahala berlipat ganda.
- Datuk Ismail Kamus

5.Kalau kita sakit jgn takut utk solat , atleast kalau mati , mati dalam solat
- ustaz haslin baharin

6. Selepas solat jangan tergesa-gesa, baca Subhanallah 33, Alhamdulillah 33, Allahuakbar 33, doa kemudian baru bangun”
- Al-Habib Ali Zainal

7. Kalau orang yang solat pun belum tentu masuk Syurga, apatah lagi orang yang meninggalkannya.
-TG Syeikh Nuruddin Marbu Al-Banjari Al-Makki

8. Jagalah solat anda. Kerana solat itu adalah hubungan antara Allah dengan hambaNya"
- Sheikh Abdullah Jahaf.

9. Menjaga solat boleh membersihkan dalaman kita. Puasa juga boleh membersihkan jiwa seseorang.
-Ustaz Dasuki Rani

10. Jgn cakap:"Pergi solat.Kalau tak,masuk api neraka!"Tapi cakap:"Jom solat,Nnt kita masuk SYURGA ALLAH sama2 ya.InsyaAllah
- TG Harun Din"

11. Kalau dalam solat tak dapat ingat Allah, mana mungkin luar solat mampu ingat Allah.
-Ustaz Pahrol.

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

No more aircond+hot shower

Anak saya ni adalah spesis yang suka tido aircond. Mungkin sudah terbiasa dari dalam perut beraircond.haha.. opis mommy aircond. Kereta aircond. Lepak spital 2 bulan lebih pun aircond.  Jadinya bile keluar,  memanjang aircond.
Klo tak, mule la menggaru leher.huhu

Tapi tang mandi adalah sangat vvip. Suke mandi hot shower. Hadoii..klo tak, raungan die leh dengar unit atas & bawah. (Mungkin salah mommy gak suke mandi hot shower. Ppfftt)

Tahun depan, kita cut cost ye nak. Kita belajar mandi sejuk, tido kipas. Bil elektrik mahal.hahaha

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Suke suki solid food

Excited mommy post a recipe as promised :p

Ingredients:
A.
Boneless chicken
Carrot
Tomato
Broccoli

(Cut into pieces and boil)

B.
Olive oil
Iman's milk

Blend A+B = DONE!

Easy right? Mommy not even use the application.  Just follow mommy's instinct. You should try. It's fun. Bahaha


Thursday, December 12, 2013

Other points of view

Manage to go to one of company store in east malaysia doing some stock check.

What item? Tensioner.skunk. clevis eye. Ball eye. Bla.bla.bla.boring? Yup. Those can't be eaten :p

What I want to share is not the item. But the people who work here. I mean the foreigners.

They all men & not from here. & I believe they have family too that far away from their sights.  Hmm..just to feed their families,  they sacrifies the love that they have. It's a life but its pathetic, men..

Talk to one of them, he show me his baby & wife picture. Tell me how he miss them.
Me: (with impress & proud face) Ahh.. how loyal he is..though different religion & his family far away, it didn't mean he can cheat even he can.

They can see their families only once a year maybe @ never. But the intuition and determination make them work harder. I saw them carry those heavy thing & at their face I can see a lot of responsibility they carry.

But me, only a few days left my baby are about going mad mommy at site. -..-

How l can be that not grateful??  I don't know. But after see them, it make me change a little bit of cranky in me.

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Mommy's lie

Everytime I pass by little kids @ baby, they reminds me of my sweet heart at home. Ahhhh.. how I believe I can stand a night without you. NO..I just can't.  I keep lie to myself that you are always with me baby  T____T

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Baby solid food apps

I'm so excited to cook for him after I discover this application. 

Wait & see mommy become Masterchip ya. Hahaha

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Growth Spurts

I think Iman is having his growth spurts though he just reach 8 months.

He be more fussy and cranky at midnight -____-

Though I'd change his diaper, prepare new & warm milk, rub oil on his chest, leg, tummy. He keep continue crying with his close eye. ppfftt

So, I'm a sleepy working mommy these week ;p

~ growth spurts : you may Google it..hehe

 @ read here:

:http://www.whattoexpect.com/first-year/ask-heidi/baby-growth-spurts.aspx#



Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Iman jatuh katil

Tajuk nak panik aje. Tapi memang die jatuh pun. Alkisahnya, biasa pepagi before pergi kerja memang tukar pampers die.

Lepas cuci, letak die kat katil. Aku settlekan sink yang kotor. Bile pusing je tengok die dah kat birai katil. Gelak-gelak tengok aku sambil menapak setapak & ....

Tau-tau aku dah tadah tangan tangkap kepala die. #lappeluhkatdahi

Aku pun tak tau camna dalam nanosecond aku leh refleks camtu. Kalau nak berlakon semula. Fuh..flash mengalahkan superman :p

Abaikan segala sakit lutut, tangan & kaki gara-gara langgar bucu katil. Yang penting, mommy jadi superwoman pepagi. Mihmihmih

Iman tengok aku..sengih je. Bertuah sungguh -___-

~moral: lepas ni semua aktiviti tido, main, tukar pampers etc2 kat lantai je. Mommy cannot trust you :p

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Goggles

Yeay..jumpa gak goggles yang ada power. Selama ni aku tak tahu pun kewujudan goggles yang ada power. Berenang la dengan goggles yang biasa. Kesian kan. Hihi. Thanks to my dear friend Baiyah yang introducekan.

So lepas ni, tak perlu swim dengan contact lens. Tak pedih mata I.hihi

Being recommended untuk beli power that lower than normal lens. As long as nampak ikan. Jadilah ;p

Beli kat Aeon Mid Valley. Price RM 42.90

Ok.next trip??? Krabi? Hewhewhew

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Up up and away

Tinggalkan lil bos dalam playpen die kejap. Sekali balik dah berdiri dah. Adoi la..sakit jantung mak ko nak oii..Sib baik tak jatuh. Huuu

Tak selamat dah. So kena adjust ketinggian playpen ni untuk keselamatan dunia akhirat.hihihi

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Well said

A post by friends.
Keep the love while you still have it

And sometimes, just leave it to Allah swt.

He knows what to do :)

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Iman & Dhia :)


I love to see them. Though Dhia  always like to 'kacau' Iman. I know she is just a small girl & just want to play. It just sometimes she is 'geram' with my walrus & mommy sometimes being overprotective.. ppfft ;p

Anyhow, I still love both of them

 See the love of sister & brother hood ^ ^



Monday, November 18, 2013

Mommy clever

Main dengan anak ni kadang-kadang menjadikan kita cam kekanak riang gak.


I'm always feel excited whenever I have time with my baby. Kadang-kadang kesian kat dia sebab masa banyak habis kat ofis, kat jalan raya, kat school, etc2.. huhu


Walaupun end up, mommy look funny to you baby. Yang penting, Iman happy-happy & gelak-gelak tengok mak die cam !@#$. 


Nampak tak penanda kat dahi tu. Itu adalah salah satu aktiviti bermain bersama anak :p

Bukan iman ketuk mommy ye. Itu sebab mommy yang pandai letak pooh tu kat dahi. Lupe plak function pelekat tu ada kuasa vacuum. Takde la lama mana pun letak kat dahi, tapi kesan die. Sampai arini tak hilang-hilang lagi -_____-

Meh tunjuk contoh:

hahaha. good one sayang ;p
 

even dah amek pix dengan 360, still tak leh hilang tanda tu..

jadi, marilah kita ke class, ke ofis dengan tanda 'cinta'

luv u son ;p 

Iman walrus.bahaha






still i love you dear :)

Friday, November 15, 2013

Tazkirah di Sabtu pagi

Ceramah ustaz bagi hari ni:

Penzina lelaki adalah untuk penzina wanita
Kalau penzina berkahwin dengan orang yang baik. Jodohnya tak lama. Itu janji Allah.
Allah Maha Adil. Bersama muhasabah diri dan bersama perbaiki diri. Hidup di dunia ni sementara. Sementara ada masa, kita belajar dan berubah lah bukan hanya untuk mendapat jodoh dan anak-anak yang baik, tetapi untuk bekalan Akhirat.

Ada 2 kisah:


1. Seorang lelaki amerika yang gangster dan selalu buat maksiat badannya penuh tattoos masuk masjid. Berjumpa imam dan menyatakan hasrat masuk islam. Selepas mengucap, waktu solat pun masuk. Dan imam mengajak die bersama-sama menunaikan solat. 'Saya tak tahu' kata lelaki amerika. 'Takpe, ikut sahaja' semasa sujud, lelaki amerika tadi tak bangun-bangun. Rupanya die dah meninggal. Alhamdulillah die mendapat penghujung yang baik Walaupun semasa hayat penuh dengan maksiat.


2. Kisah seorang ulama yang sentiasa beribadat pada Allah tetapi penghujungnya dia diuji dan mati dalam keadaan yang mengaibkan. Ok. Kisah ni boleh google sendiri ye. Sedih pulak aku nak taip


So sama-sama kita berdoa minta penghujung yang baik. Dan kalau ada yang fikir, nak jadi macam kisah no 1 tu. Buat maksiat dulu,  kemudian baru bertaubat. Fikir balik. Allah nak ambil nyawa kita ni anytime. Dia tak cakap nak cabut minggu depan @ 10 minit lagi.
Thanks ustaz. Refresh motivation untuk kita semua. Amin



Wednesday, November 13, 2013

His first car

After work, I'm rush to Aeon Maluri. Looking for Iman's walker. Nekwan request as nowadays it is very hard to feed him. Play a lot huh baby?
Though I read & heard the bad thing about baby walker, I try to look at positive view.
Nekwan not so 'tough' to carry the 8kg monster every minute. Iman being very picky lately. Always want people to accompany him even during his sleep time. He will 'raba' surrounding him to ensure there's someone around him.
So here we go. Walker + rocker. I'm glad he likes it.
Go fun with your car babeh!

over you



An old song played this morning. I always love his voice. Feel like want to eat..hehe
Enjoy. Happy Thursday

"Over You"

Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath.
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
Well I'm putting my heart back together,
'Cause I got over you.
Well I got over you.
I got over you.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.


Stuck

I'm blogging while driving. How interesting traffic in KL, right?

I'm wasting a lot of time. How I wish I can spend more time with my family especially my baby.huhu

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Campak

Iman kena demam campak last week. Kesian die. Dah la sekarang tengah aktif merangkak cara walrus.bahaha..haip..mommy nie...sorry sayang, tapi awak merangkak comel sangat.hihi

Sekarang die asyik la tergaru-garu. Penuh kaki die merah-merah. Malam pun tak lena tido. Tanya doc, die cakap mau seminggu baru nak baik.huaaa.. T___T
Cepat sihat ye baby!

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Watermark

Punya lah bertahun benda alah ni wujud. Baru nak belajar letak setelah menyedari kepentingan watermark.heeehee..

So here we go. The first attempt with my hero angry bebird.mihmihmih ^ ^

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Happy Friday

Happy sangat. Buku ape tak baca. Test online tak buat lagi. Main je..haissshh..
Iman..doakan mommy ye. Last time you are inside my womb. Together we strive in the exam hall & Alhamdulillah we made it :)

Now you are out. Mommy scared..geeeee...



Monday, November 4, 2013

He knew his name

Salam maal hijrah 1435

This morning, when his wak (my big bro) call him dhia (my niece name) he just ignore. But when wak call him Iman. He turn and smile :) we repeat the same process & the outcome is he seems knew his name. praise to Allah




Ok.please remember. my name is Iman. Hehe

Doa akhir & awal tahun

Alhamdulillah, nak masuk tahun baru. Mari kita baca doa ni. sangat mendalam. Betapa kita manusia yang sentiasa terlibat dengan dosa. Sesungguhnya Allah swt maha pengampun



Doa akhir tahun: Baca Doa Akhir Tahun ini sebanyak 3 kali pada akhir waktu Asar atau sebelum masuk waktu Maghrib pada akhir bulan Zulhijjah


Doa awal tahun: Baca Doa Awal Tahun ini sebanyak 3 kali selepas maghrib pada malam satu Muharram

ok sempat lagi nie. Mari beramal. :)

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Iman trying hard :p





Alhamdulillah.  At 7 months, he try to sit. Try very hard u see.hahaha.. its okay. Mommy support u baby. I'm so excited to see it infront of my eyes. & I bet I'm the first person to see. Come on..give working mommy here a chance la ;')

Friday, October 25, 2013

He start his step

Alhamdulillah. At age 6 months, Iman start crawling. New mommy feeling excited here ^_^
Wait for when he start running. See whether mommy still feel excited @ not ; p

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Parents as icon

Thing that cross my mind after give birth to Iman is I want to give him the best that I can. From health, comfortability, taught and love. If I can give my 199%, I would sacrifies everything. 
But one thing for sure, thing that we cant neglect. As parents, we need to give our kids a good example.

If we expect our kids to perform solah, then we should start it early. If we expect kids to love reading, we should do the same. We don't want our kids to be smoker, then we shouldn't. Everything is simple as that. You lead, they'll follow.

Whatever we did even behind their knowledge,  sooner or later,  your kids will turn exactly like you.

So, note to all parents & especially me. Please BEHAVE! 

♥ We are not perfect. We do make mistake. We are not blaming. We are telling this is not right. When u can't accept it. U turn and say it's their fault too. MEAN u can't accept people taught on u. Whatever it is we learn. We forgive and may not forget. But we should appreciate what Allah swt has grant us ♥

further reading:
http://nursyirah.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/doa-pengasih-dan-doa-pelembut-hati%E2%80%A6/

highlighted for lazy eyes ;p

"Saya ada baca dalam tulisan uts.zaharuddin, ust mengatakan bila suami atau isteri melakukan maksiat walaupun ‘RINGAN2’ saja, pasti akan turun pada zuriat bila tak bertaubat. Apa tah lagi bila sudah biasa terjebak dlm zina. Mahukah kita hidup senang sedangkan warisan kita tak sempurna akhlaknya… warisan itulah yg akan HALANG kita dari masuk syurga malah diheretnya kita ke neraka.. Nauzubillah…."

What past is past. Most important when there's who can accept & forgive.  Learn from mistake & appreciate the second chance. This reminder is for us not to take things for granted when we raise the caliph of Allah. Stop from abuse ourself. Don't let disappointment make you far away from God ok :)  

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

20 Marriage Tips Everyone Needs to Know

credit to: http://www.viralnova.com/20-marriage-tips/


saw the article this morning. Good info to share with all. :)

20 Marriage Tips Everyone Needs to Know

Below are 20 wise marriage tips from a man that was recently divorced. You wouldn’t normally think that a divorced man would give good advice on being a husband, but this man has been through enough hardship to know what is worth fighting for:

MARRIAGE ADVICE I WISH I WOULD HAVE HAD:
Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had…

1) Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

5) IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

6) TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

7) NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

8) Allow your woman to JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

9) BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

10) FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

11) BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

12) BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

13) DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

14) GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

15) BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

16) BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

17) NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.

18) DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

19) FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

20) ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.

In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

These are lessons I learned the hard way. These are lessons I learned too late.
But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.
The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up.

If you are reading this and your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

MEN- THIS IS YOUR CHARGE : Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you.
Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.

 


flu+fever




Come back from Jakarta, Iman got flu & fever. Pity him. If I could take all the pain, I would volunteer to take it all. Provided my baby is fine. 

Well, what I wish come true, now I got flu & fever. Bahaha.. 
But still, Iman is unwell. Keep strong baby. U  stronger than mommy :)